HOLY
TRINITY CELTIC ORTHODOX CHURCH
http://www.celticorthodoxy.com/bkceltic-orthodox-church
HOLY
ORTHODOXY RESPONDS TO THE GAY LIFE STYLE
Introduction
Over
the past 45 years, our society has undergone a revolution – there is really no
other way to describe it – in the
prevailing cultural attitudes towards homosexuality and various related
‘alternative’ sexualities, an entire range of behaviors now collectively
referred to by the acronym LGBTQ – Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, and
Queer (this last term being a catch-all for identities and behaviors that do not
fit into any of the preceding categories).
Most of the contemporary population has come of age during this
revolution. Older readers will
remember a time when if such things were even mentioned, it was usually in the
form of a tasteless joke, or in the context of an insult. Indeed, the behaviors associated with
homosexuality were once criminally punishable in almost every jurisdiction –
federal, state, and local – in the United States, and similarly abroad. To be ‘outed’ credibly as someone who
engaged in homosexual behavior usually meant that one’s reputation and career
were ruined. Active homosexuals
stayed carefully closeted, as they could become targets of blackmail or worse.
Today,
not only does our society broadly tolerate homosexual behavior, it is legally
recognized and given protected status.
The US Supreme Court’s Obergefell decision in June of 2015 made the
United States the 22nd country to officially recognize same-sex
marriage. Homosexual characters are
everywhere in television and films, and the attention of social progressives is
moving towards the mainstreaming of ever more exotic sexual identities. Young people are growing up in an
environment where casual acceptance of homosexuality and bisexuality is
increasingly seen as the norm, and where dissenters from the new orthodoxy are
regarded with contempt, not only as ignorant and unenlightened, but as
positively evil.
This
change in attitudes presents an array of challenges as we seek to live our lives
as Christians. In some respects,
the issues we face are similar to those of our brethren in late-classical
antiquity. On the other hand, for
them the norms of pagan sexuality represented a long-prevailing status quo, for
which the Church was proclaiming a revolutionary alternative. For us, we face a newly remade moral
landscape, and one which, far from being static, is evolving rapidly as it is
driven forward by powerful social and political forces.
As
we will necessarily discuss the biology and sociology of homosexuality, we will
first ask, in advance, the pardon of any who are made uncomfortable by hearing
medical – especially, anatomical – terminology, which will figure in certain
sections. We will not go out of my
way to offend; but neither will we substitute euphemisms for the usual
scientific terms of art.
The
revolution described is based on the widespread acceptance in Western society of
four (4) core beliefs. All these
beliefs are asserted to be ‘scientific’ in nature; the fourth is also a
widespread cultural expectation.
The campaigns of homosexual activists over the last 40 years have largely
succeeded in institutionalizing this new understanding, and have created an
all-embracing belief system that is aggressively defended against contradiction
or skepticism from any quarter. The
key elements of this belief system are as follow:
1)
Homosexuals
are born that way. Same-sex
attraction (or if you prefer, sexual orientation) is innate, and largely
genetically determined. 2)
Same-sex
attraction is immutable. Any
attempt to reverse it entails a profound denial of self, and may result in
mental problems such as depression, suicide, and alcohol and drug abuse. This is why homosexuals should be
treated as a protected class, just as are racial and ethnic groups whose
statuses are innate and immutable.
Therefore, the proper role of psychiatry and psychology (and supporting
social organizations) for those who are dissatisfied with their same-sex
attraction is not to help them change – even if they wish to – but to help them
to become comfortable with their homosexuality.
3)
Homosexuality
is normal. It is similar to other
social categories such as race and ethnicity. Since, in this view, homosexuality
is not an illness and is not pathological, it should be accepted and not
discouraged in any way. Aside from
sexual orientation, active homosexuals are just like everyone else.
4)
Orientation
equals behavior and self-identity.
Once a person experiences same-sex attraction, that is who they are. It becomes their main identity – more
important than religion, education, social class, ethnicity, personal interests,
or anything else. They immediately
become a part of the ‘LGBTQ community’, a subculture with clear expectations for
their future behavior. In other
words, if you experience same-sex attraction, you’re gay – and therefore
expected to live a ‘gay lifestyle.’
Any other way of life would be inauthentic and a denial of self, of ‘who
you truly are.’
In
this discussion, we will consider the extent to which these beliefs are true or
not – and what insights the teachings of our faith can provide us.
We
need first to have a thorough understanding of this phenomenon – historically,
scientifically, and spiritually. So
comprehensive has been the assault on the realties surrounding this issue that
many Christians have been influenced by it, at least at the margins. For that reason, the ‘educational’
portion of this discussion will be the most detailed and comprehensive. We will start with some historical and
cultural observations.
In
beginning our discussion, we begin with a basic fact:
Human
sexual behavior is almost completely mutable.
(We’ll
consider the issue of attraction, or orientation, a bit later in the
discussion.)
Sexual
behavior is conditioned by cultural norms, by socialization, by personal
experience, by religion, by philosophy – and to a minor extent, by certain
biological factors. Human beings,
in a fallen and unenlightened state, function polysexually.
With
respect to the specific behavior under consideration, one ethnographic study
found that 21% of the historical and contemporary cultures surveyed accepted or
ignored homosexuality, 12% had no concept for it, 26% discouraged but did not
punish it, and 41% strongly disapproved of and punished it.1
We
will consider a few examples.
In
the ancient world, attitudes towards homosexual behavior ranged from 1) the
institutionalization of the behavior by society, to 2) fierce intolerance, and
3) everything in between.
That
it existed, for example, among the Canaanites of the 21st century BC
is evident from the familiar Biblical account of Sodom – whose name forms the
root of our word, sodomy, for certain unnatural sexual practices.2
In
China, homoerotic art exists from a number of periods in China’s long
history. However, the Song Dynasty
(11th century AD) criminalized homosexual prostitution; and in the
16th century the Qing Dynasty criminalized all homosexual
intercourse. Literary references
are more difficult to identify, since Chinese erotic poetry invariably employs
elaborate metaphors when discussing sexual topics; it is often difficult to
specify the gender specifics of the parties. Thailand, on the other hand, has had a
long history of effeminate males, which in Thai society are sometimes regarded
as a third gender.
In
the New World, the Spanish conquistador Vasco de Balboa reported homosexual
behavior among upper class natives of Panama.3 Among Plains Indian tribes, there
existed the phenomenon of the so-called ‘two-spirited’ person, typically a male
with feminine behavioral traits.
These individuals sometimes functioned as shamen, and interacted sexually
with tribesmen of the same biological gender.4
The
Greco-Roman world deserves more of our attention, both because it is often cited
approvingly by contemporary homosexual activists, and more importantly, because
it was into this environment that Christianity first emerged.
In
classical Greece, a range of norms prevailed among the various city-states. The practice of pederasty is
significant. This was a
relationship intellectual, emotional, and sometimes sexual, between an
adolescent youth and an older man, each pair consisting of an older erastês
(ἐραστής,
or ‘lover’) and a younger erômenos
(ἐρώμενος,
or ‘beloved’), both of whom would be citizens of approximately equal social
rank. The prevalence of this
practice varied widely by city and social class. The popular view of archaic and
classical Sparta, that the city encouraged pederasty in the ranks of its
soldiers, is probably incorrect; the only classical writer with first-hand
experience of Spartan military training, Xenophon, explicitly denies it. Thebes, on the other hand, was known for
its 4th-century ‘Sacred Band’, composed of 150 pairs of erastai and
erômenoi, who served as elite troops for the city. The written record is most extensive for
classical Athens, where many scholars argue that pederasty was an upper-class
phenomenon, a form of mentoring and career sponsorship. Early in his career, Plato speaks
approvingly of these relationships; in his later writings, he changes his view,
describing them as unnatural and suggesting that they be banned. Aristotle, on the other hand, accepts
them as a matter of course.
By
contrast, homosexual relationships between adult men were considered
inappropriate, especially for the ‘passive’ partner, and were often an object of
insult and mockery by comic writers.
It
should be noted that these cultural practices and attitudes were rooted, in
part, in a deep misogyny. Women in
most Greek city-states were regarded as extreme inferiors. The existence of true love was
considered impossible in the context of so unequal a relationship. As one classical scholar put it, “among
Athenian upper class males, if you wanted children, you went to your wife; if
you wanted sex, you went to a prostitute; if you wanted love, you went to a boy
or youth.”5
There
is less evidence for female homosexuality in the ancient world. The Greek archaic period poetess, Sappho
of Lesbos (7-6th centuries BC), wrote much that is homoerotic in
character, and in the process gave us our contemporary terms Sapphic and
Lesbian. However, the character of
her literary output is almost unique.
Moreover, our knowledge of the lives of aristocratic women in archaic
Greece
is extremely limited; it is impossible to state, one way or the other, whether
Sappho
was bisexual or lesbian in the contemporary sense of those words.6
In
general, among males in the Greco-Roman world a distinction was drawn between
the active and passive partners in same-sex activity. Typically, the ‘active’ (i.e.,
penetrative) partner was subject to little opprobrium, provided that his partner
was of lower status: in general, non-citizens, by reason of sex or social
class. This was particularly true –
and highly characteristic – of late-Republican and early-Imperial Roman
mores. An adult male Roman citizen
could function in a dominant sexual role with any non-citizen – slave, freedman,
performer, or prostitute – without comment. On the other hand, in contrast to the
Greek pattern, young male citizens were strictly off-limits, as the passive role
was seen as demeaning to the youth’s social status. In the Roman army, in striking contrast
to Greek – and now contemporary Western – views, homosexual conduct between
soldiers was severely punished as a serious breach of military discipline.
Significantly,
the question of orientation was non-existent; there are no classical Greek or
Latin counterparts to our contemporary concepts of homosexuality and
heterosexuality in English.7
As
one would expect, Roman mores changed steadily after the adoption of
Christianity by St. Constantine, with a steadily increasing discrimination
against homosexual practices.
According to Zonaras (Book III), both Theodosius the Great and St.
Justinian condemned sodomites to forfeiture of possessions and severe
punishments. In the Roman East,
proscriptions against homosexual conduct became fully institutionalized in law
by 618 AD.
Islamic
cultures, although sharing the proscriptions against homosexuality of other
Abrahamic religions, have as a matter of practice taken the view that
penetrative intercourse is not effeminate, and that only the passive partner is
‘homosexual.’
A
full anthropological survey of this phenomenon is beyond the scope of this
discussion. However, there are
three (3) principal observations to be made from even a cursory historical
overview. First is the relative
scarcity of evidence, empirically, for biological determinism as a principal
factor (unless, perhaps, it is simply to observe that fallen man is capable of
anything). Behaviors, as we have
observed, vary widely from culture to culture. Second is the relative lack of identity
as an element in most ancient cultures where homosexual behavior was widely
practiced. There are few parallels
to contemporary Western society, where orientation and identity are front and
center. And third is the importance
of accepted social norms in conditioning sexual behavior. We will discuss all of these, as we
continue.
In
the preceding survey, we have not yet considered the example of Old Israel, and
referred only in passing to the influence of Christianity on the later Roman
Empire – in part because they are exceptional, but principally because the
testimony of the Church stands apart from all merely human history, as inspired
by the oracles of God. While
certain cultures, building only on their natural knowledge of God, have in
various times and places embraced chastity as an ideal, it is only in the
teaching of the Church that we find this understanding elevated to a cardinal
virtue.
Most
are all familiar with the relevant citations in Scripture, so they will not be
enumerated in detail. However, it
should be noted, that while these may be to most conservative Christians
self-evident truths, the preceding historical survey suggests how
‘revolutionary’ and transformative they were to the life of fallen man.
The
people of God – the patriarchs and Old Israel – had definite views about which
sexual behaviors were permissible and which were not, by which they stood out
from among the peoples of ancient Canaan.
The revelations to the Israelites, from the Law of Moses, were direct and
specific:
From
Leviticus in chapter 18 [22, 30]:
You
shall not lie with a male as with a woman; it is an abomination . . . defile not
yourselves therein: I am the Lord your God.
The
20th chapter of the same book goes so far as to make such behavior a
capital crime [13]:
If
a man lies with a male as with a woman, both of them have committed an
abomination; let them be put to death: their blood is upon them.
And
similarly, in Deuteronomy [23:17]:
There
shall be no whore of the daughters of Israel, nor a sodomite of the sons of
Israel.
In
the Old Testament histories, the books of the Kings, we find King Rehoboam
criticized because he permitted sodomites in Judah, and King Asa praised because
he drove them out.
The
views of the New Testament writers were consistent with their Old Covenant
forbearers. The Apostle Paul, in
his letter to the Romans [1:22-27], comments:
Professing
themselves to be wise, they became fools . . . Wherefore God also gave them up
to uncleanness through the lusts of their own hearts, to dishonor their own
bodies between themselves . . . women exchanged natural relations for those that
are contrary to nature; and the men likewise gave up natural relations with
women and were consumed with passion for one another, men committing shameless
acts with men and receiving in themselves the due penalty of their error.
In
his first letter to the Corinthians [6:9-10], he writes further:
Do
not be deceived: neither the sexually immoral, nor idolaters, nor adulterers,
nor men who practice homosexuality, nor thieves, nor the greedy, nor drunkards,
nor revilers, nor swindlers will inherit the kingdom of God. And in his first
letter to Timothy [1:9-10a]:
Knowing
this, that the law is . . . made . . . for the lawless and disobedient, for the
ungodly and for sinners . . . for whoremongers, for them that defile themselves
with mankind . . .
In
the General Epistle of the Apostle Jude [7], we read:
Sodom
and Gomorrah, and the surrounding cities, which likewise indulged in sexual
immorality and pursued unnatural desire, serve as an example by undergoing a
punishment of eternal fire.
Christianity
emerged into the world of late-classical antiquity with a radical,
lifetransforming alternative to the worldview of pagan society. Among these new, life-changing virtues
was a chaste life as the aim of every faithful Christian. The Apostle Paul alludes to this in his
first letter to the Corinthians [6:11]:
And
such were some of you. But you were washed, you were sanctified, you were
justified in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ and by the Spirit of our God.
And
again, in his letter to the Colossians [3:5-8]:
Put
to death therefore what is earthly in you: sexual immorality, impurity, passion,
evil desire, and covetousness, which is idolatry. On account of these the wrath of God is
coming. In these you too once
walked, when you were living in them.
But now you also put off all these.
Note
that these verses makes clear that among the Christians in Corinth and Colossae
were people who had led sexually immoral lives prior to their conversion to
Christianity. Corinth, in
particular, in both classical and apostolic times, was notorious for its sexual
immorality.8
The
Holy Fathers of the first centuries of Christianity bluntly describe the world
they sought to transform. St.
Cyprian of Carthage writes:
“Oh,
if placed on that lofty watch-tower, you could gaze into the secret places – if
you could open the closed doors of sleeping chambers and recall their dark
recesses to the perception of sight – you would behold things done by immodest
persons which no chaste eye could look upon; you would see what even to see is a
crime; you would see what people imbruted with the madness of vice deny that
they have done, and yet hasten to do – men with frenzied lusts rushing upon men,
doing things which afford no gratification even to those who do them.” St. Cyprian of Carthage, “Letters” c.
250 AD
St.
John Chrysostom writes:
“All
of these affections [in Rom. 1:26-27] . . . were vile, but chiefly the mad lust
after males; for the soul is more the sufferer in sins, and more dishonored than
the body in diseases. The sins against nature are more difficult and less
rewarding, since true pleasure is only according to nature. But when God
abandons a man, everything is turned upside down! . . . A murderer only separates the soul from
the body, whereas these destroy the soul inside the body . . . There is nothing,
absolutely nothing more mad or damaging than this perversity.” St. John
Chrysostom, “Homilies on Romans”
And
in words which surely must seem, to us, prophetic, St. John in another place
writes:
“The
worst of it is that such an abomination is committed boldly and that the
monstrosity becomes the law. Nobody
nowadays fears, nobody blushes.
They boast and they laugh at these actions. The people who abstain appear stupid and
they who condemn are regarded as fools.
If they appear to be weaker they are crushed with blows. If they are stronger, people laugh,
people mock them and make many jokes about them. They have no redress in tribunals or in
law.” (Against the Opponents of Monastic Life, III.8)
Perhaps
there is also some consolation here for us, that the worldly attitudes against
which St. John preached sound so familiar to us.
Concerning
those in Holy Orders who fall into these sins, Saint Basil the Great writes:
“The
cleric or monk who molests youths or boys or is caught kissing or committing
some turpitude, let him be whipped in public, deprived of his tonsure, and ()
reduced to eating rye bread once a day in the evening three times per week.
After six months living in a separate cell under the custody of a wise elder
with great spiritual experience, let him be subjected to prayers, vigils and
manual work, always under the guard of two spiritual brothers, without being
allowed to have any relationship . . . with young people.” (St. Basil the Great,
in St. Peter Damien, Liber Gomorrhianus)
We
find similar comments in St. Clement of Rome, in St. Aristides, in the Epistle
of St. Barnabas, in Blessed Augustine and in Tertullian.
The
early Canons of the Orthodox Church also speak to these practices:
From
the 92 Canons of St. Basil (affirmed specifically by the 4th, 6th, and 7th
Ecumenical Councils):
Canon
7:
“Sodomists
and bestialists and murderers and sorcerers and adulterers and idolaters deserve
the same condemnation, so that whatever rule you have as regarding the others
observe it also in regard to these persons.”
Canon
62:
“As
for any man who uncovers his nakedness in the midst of males, he shall be
allotted the time [i.e., 15 years] fixed for those transgressing in the act of
adultery.”
From
the 35 Canons of St. John the Faster:
Canon
9:
“As
for sexual intercourse of men with one another, such as practicing double
masturbation, it received the stated penance of up to eighty days [together with
strict fasting and one hundred prostrations a day].”
It
should be noted that the canon for double masturbation is precisely twice the
penance prescribed for solo masturbation in the preceding Canon 8 because, as
St. Nicodemos of the Holy Mountain notes: “each of these offenders is not only
hurting himself, but is also hurting his brother, and this makes the sin a
double sin” (The Rudder, p. 938).
Canon
18:
“It
has seemed advisable to exclude any man who has been so mad as to copulate with
another man from Communion for three years, weeping and fasting, and towards
evening confined to xerophagy (i.e., a strict vegan raw diet), and doing two
hundred prostrations. But as for one who prefers to take it easy, let him
fulfill the fifteen years [i.e., of Canon 62 of St. Basil].”
We
see in these Canons a number of things. The first is that, as in Scripture and
the writings of the Fathers, unnatural acts are regarded with great
seriousness. Second, that the act
of anal sodomy is regarded as a much greater fall than certain other homosexual
behaviors; and third, that even anal sodomy is grouped with a number of other
sexual sins, such as adultery. This
has some significance for us, since in the context of this country’s ‘culture
wars,’ it is easy to fall into the trap of regarding temptations of this kind as
a kind of ‘ultimate sin,’ rather than as one of a number of related passions
against which man in his fallen state must struggle.
However,
this perspective does not extend to a view that ‘fornication is fornication’
(i.e., regardless of whether it is same-sex or opposite-sex). It is clear from the canons and writings
of the Fathers, that homosexual fornication, at least in the context of anal
sodomy, is regarded as more serious than heterosexual fornication, just as
adultery is so regarded.9
In
summary, an enormous weight of Scripture, together with the Holy Fathers and the
Holy Canons, fences us from homosexual behavior. That our loving Lord, Who is love (1
John 4:8), and desires that we might have life, and that . . . more abundantly
(John 10:10), so directs, gives unassailable witness to the destructiveness, of
both soul and body, of these behaviors.
Some reasons why this is so will become plain during the portion of the
discussion on the science of homosexuality.
St.
Paul urges us to be not conformed to this world: but be ye transformed by the
renewing of your mind, that ye may prove what is that good, and acceptable, and
perfect, will of God. (Romans 12:2).
The word translated here as ‘world’ is not the usual κοσμός (‘kosmos’),
the material world, but αιώνι (‘aioni,’ eon or time) – the age in which we
live. And this is our challenge as
Christians, that we not allow ourselves to be conformed to this age, but to the
will for us of our loving Lord.
This
understanding – that unnatural sexual relations are destructive of soul and
body, and therefore to be discouraged – was universal in the Christian world for
the next 1300 years.
The
Judeo-Christian view of homosexual behavior was dominant in the cultures of
Western nations from the 4th century to the mid-20th – a
period of some 1700 years, and also was, officially at least, the view of the
Muslim world. Even cultures outside
the Abrahamic religions were influenced by their dominant worldview.
How
then, did an almost complete reversal of this understanding occur in little more
than a generation?
It
should be emphasized, at the outset, that it had very little to do with science
– rather, it has been characterized by the systematic suppression of
science.
The
roots of the change in popular attitudes are much deeper than the last 50
years. In the 18th
century, the writers and philosophers of the Enlightenment largely saw the
fallen state of man as natural.
Associated with this was an increase in religious skepticism, challenging
Western culture’s Christian foundations and restraint of man’s passionate
impulses. The psychological
theories of the late-19th and early20th centuries (e.g.,
those of Sigmund Freud and his contemporaries), following their Enlightenment
forbearers, described attempts to curb the spiritual illnesses of fallen human
nature as unhealthy ‘repression.’
In the characterization of sociologist Pitirim Sorokin and others, the
cultural mentality of the West became increasing ‘sensate’ – that is, one in
which truth is drawn exclusively from the senses, and in which pleasure is
therefore always the goal, because pleasure is always the (material) good.
In
literature, the years prior to World War I saw few novels with homosexual
characters, and in these novels the homosexual characters typically came to a
bad end. Following World War I,
Hemingway wrote a number of short stories with homosexual characters and themes
that may be described as descriptive and cynical in tone, as opposed to
cautionary. However, the first
novel to deal openly with homosexuality and to achieve wide distribution was
Gore Vidal’s The City and the Pillar, in 1948. In this novel, Vidal – himself a
lifelong homosexual – portrayed overt homosexuality as a natural behavior. Even among the literary establishment of
that day, this was too much; major newspapers would not advertise the novel, and
magazines blacklisted Vidal’s work for a number of years. Eugene O’Neill’s famous play, Cat on a
Hot Tin Roof, in 1955, brought an underlying homosexual theme to Broadway,
complete with a star-studded cast, but this aspect of the play was written out
of the 1958 Hollywood film based upon it.
In
the field of scientific research – although perhaps it is now more aptly
regarded as science fiction – the Kinsey Reports of 1948 and 1953 opened sexual
topics for discussion, including homosexuality, that had formerly been
taboo. Although Alfred Kinsey’s
work is now widely recognized as flawed, it had a significant impact for many
years. The notorious 10% figure for
the incidence of homosexuality in the general population originates with
Kinsey. During the 1970s and 1980s,
gay activists quoted this figure as often as possible. (Although one would think that it should
have been so thoroughly discredited as to be extinct today, it can be found in
contemporary brochures prepared for adolescents questioning their
sexuality. Notwithstanding the
discrediting of much of his research, Kinsey was treated sympathetically in a
2004 film.)
However,
underlying changes in Western
culture were laying the foundation for a major shift in the attitudes of the
general public. Although couples
had long controlled their fertility with various prophylactic devices, the
introduction of oral contraception in 1960 contributed to the separation of
procreation and sex in the mind of the public. The affluence and leisure of the
post-war period facilitated pleasure-seeking in all its forms. And although nominal religious
observance remained strong through the mid-1960s, at least in America, there was
a significant
‘social’
dimension to this participation, which masked a strong current of theological
liberalism and the decay of traditional religious belief.
These
intellectual and social currents contributed to what is usually referred to as
the ‘sexual revolution’ of the
1960s, 1970s, and 1980s. These
trends led to an increase in divorce, premarital sex, and abortion, and also
paved the way for the mainstreaming of homosexuality. Popular ‘sex manuals’ (e.g., The Joy of
Sex, in 1972, followed by The Joy of Gay Sex, in 1977) presented sex as a
recreational activity to be practiced using an array of techniques, including
sodomy. The widespread adoption
among heterosexual couples of sexual practices formerly associated principally
with homosexuals – for example, oral sex, mutual masturbation, and anal sex –
tended to blur the distinctions between the two in the mind of the public.
In
a broader context, the movement to remove traditional attitudes around
homosexuality (and a myriad of other sexual constraints) was part of a larger
project, to bring every aspect of traditional culture under skeptical challenge.
The
movement to mainstream homosexuality has been, from the start, a political
struggle.
The
start of a formal movement in the United States can be traced to the New York
Stonewall Riots of mid-1969. In the
1960s, the New York City Police Department routinely raided bars, bathhouses,
and clubs catering to a homosexual clientele, in enforcement of then-current
anti-sodomy and public decency laws.
Their raid on the Stonewall Inn on June 28, 1969 attracted a large crowd,
and the police lost control of the situation. Rioting occurred over several days. This event served as a catalyst, and
within six months, two ‘gay rights’ organizations focusing on confrontational
tactics and three homosexual periodicals had been founded. The first ‘Gay Pride’ march was
conducted in New York, San Francisco, Los Angeles, and Chicago on June 28, 1970,
the first anniversary of the riots.
Such events are now held worldwide at this time of year, in commemoration
of these events.
If
the Stonewall Riots were the initial catalyst, unquestionably the most
significant enabler of the homosexual revolution was the 1973 removal of
homosexuality as a psychiatric illness by the American Psychiatric Association
(APA). The story of how this
occurred is representative of the politicization of science pursued by
homosexual activists from the very inception of the movement.
As
an example of the status quo ante, in 1963 the New York Academy of Medicine
asked its Committee on Public Health to report on the subject of homosexuality.
The Committee reported that:
Homosexuality
is indeed an illness. The homosexual is an emotionally disturbed individual who
has not acquired the normal capacity to develop satisfying heterosexual
relations.
Significantly, however, the same report
also noted that:
Some
homosexuals have gone beyond the plane of defensiveness and now argue that
deviancy is a “desirable, noble, preferable way of life.”
In
the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual (DSM) of the APA, homosexuality was
initially (in 1953) defined as a ‘sociopathic personality disturbance’; in the
DSM-II of 1968, as a ‘sexual deviation.’
DSM-II read, in part:
This
category is for individuals whose sexual interest are directed primarily towards
objects other than people of the opposite sex, toward sexual acts . . .
performed under bizarre circumstances . . .Even though many find their practices
distasteful, they remain unable to substitute normal sexual behavior for them.
No
new scientific evidence emerged during the 1960s and early 1970s to contradict
these statements. How, then, did
the APA come to make such an extraordinary reversal?
Franklin
Kameny, a homosexual activist, said “I feel that the entire homophile movement .
. . is going to stand or fall upon
the question of whether or not homosexuality is a sickness, and upon our taking
a firm stand on it.”10
Indeed, it would be difficult to promote a mental illness or pathology as
a civil right. Their principal
target therefore became the classification in the DSM-II.
In
the absence of supporting scientific evidence, the only possible avenue was
political action. This took two
forms: internal and external.
In
the early 1970s, open homosexuals were not permitted to practice
psychiatry. As a result, homosexual
psychiatrists were very closely closeted; not surprisingly, they regarded
overturning their professional association’s definition of homosexuality as an
illness as a most-desired goal.
With this in mind, they began to work their way into the upper echelons
of the Association.
In
parallel, outside homosexual activist groups began a campaign of disruption
against APA meetings and conventions.
At the 1970 annual meeting, Gay Liberation Front members disrupted events
with what they termed ‘guerilla theater,’ in an effort to delegitimize the
proceedings. At the 1971 meeting,
Kameny stormed the conference at the head of thirty protesters, shouting “We are
here to denounce your authority to call us sick or mentally disordered . . . For
us, as homosexuals, your profession is the enemy incarnate . .
.”11 He
followed up this disruption with a letter to the Psychiatric News which promised
future action, and threatened that if the APA did not change their position on
homosexuality, they would act to discredit the entire profession of psychiatry.
If
these sound like storm trooper tactics, this is quite literally true. The co-founder of ACT-UP/DC, Eric
Pollard, stated frankly:
I
have helped to create a truly fascist organization. We conspired to bring into existence an
activist group that . . . could effectively exploit the media for its own ends,
and that would work covertly and break the law with impunity . . . we subscribed
to consciously subversive modes, drawn largely from the voluminous Mein Kampf,
which some of us studied as a working model.12
Meanwhile,
the efforts of the underground homosexual lobby within the APA were beginning to
bear fruit. Dr. John P. Spiegel
became president-elect of the APA in 1973.
Dr. Spiegel was a homosexual so carefully closeted that his own family
did not suspect it until he revealed it on his 70th birthday. In fact, Spiegel had for some time been
leading a covert group of activists within the APA, some of whom began referring
to themselves informally as the GayPA.
They had facilitated the disruptive activities of outside agitators by
providing press passes that gave them access to APA meetings.
At
the 1973 Honolulu meeting, Dr. Robert Spitzer, head of the APA’s committee on
nomenclature, was convinced by a meeting with homosexual activists to draft a
change to language in the DSM. The
key phrase in the forthcoming DSM-III would be that
Homosexuality
per se is one form of sexual behavior and, like other forms of sexual behavior
which are not by themselves psychiatric disorders, is not listed in this
nomenclature of mental disorders.
The
sole caveat to this change was that homosexuals who were unhappy with their
same-sex attraction could still be diagnosed with ‘ego-dystonic
homosexuality.’ Even this caveat
would be removed in 1987, in the DSM-III Revised.
The
new language was submitted simply to a vote of the Board of Trustees, without a
single supporting scientific paper.
The matter was later submitted to a referendum of the membership, who
were lobbied in advance by a letter signed by unidentified GayPA members, and
funded and partly written by the National Gay Task Force (NGTF), which had
purchased the APA’s mailing list.
Because a majority of the APA members who responded voted to support the
change in the classification of homosexuality, the decision of the Board of
Trustees was allowed to stand. But in fact only one-third of the membership did
respond. Four years later the journal Medical Aspects of Human Sexuality
conducted a survey of the membership, which reported that 69% of psychiatrists
disagreed with the vote, and still considered homosexuality a disorder.
As
lesbian activist Barbara Gittings put it,
It
never was a medical decision – and that’s why I think the action came so
fast. After all, it was only three
years from the time that feminists and gays first zapped the APA at a behavior
therapy session to the time that the Board of Trustees voted in 1973 to approve
removing homosexuality from the list of mental disorders. It was a political move.13
Dr.
Charles Socarides, a psychoanalyst in the field of homosexual treatment, noted
that the decision “involved the out-of-hand and peremptory disregard and
dismissal not only of hundreds of psychiatric and psychoanalytic research papers
and reports but also of a number of
other serious studies by groups of psychiatrists, psychologists, and
educators over the past seventy years.”14 The 1973 APA decision, he said
remains
a chilling reminder that if scientific principles are not fought for, they can
be lost – a disillusioning warning that unless we make no exceptions to science,
we are subject to the snares of political factionalism and the propagation of
untruths to an unsuspecting and uninformed public, to the rest of the medical
profession and to the behavioral sciences.15
The
decision appalled even some liberal psychiatrists. Drs. Rogers Wright and Nicholas Cummings
noted that it was “the first time in the history of healthcare that a diagnosis
or lack of diagnosis was decided by popular vote rather than scientific
evidence.”16 Even a
supporter of the homosexual cause, Professor
Ronald
Bayer, commented
The
entire process, from the first confrontation organized by gay demonstrators at
psychiatric conventions to the referendum demanded by orthodox psychiatrists,
seemed to violate the most basic expectation about how questions of science
should be resolved. Instead of
being engaged in a sober consideration of data, psychiatrists were swept up in a
political controversy . . .The results was not a conclusion based on an
approximation of the scientific truth as dictated by reason, but was instead an
action demanded by the ideological temper of the times.17
The
American Psychological Association followed suit in 1975, and today states, as a
‘scientific fact’, that “being gay is just as healthy as being straight”, and
that “same-sex sexual attraction, behavior, and orientation per se are normal
and positive variance of human sexuality.”
The
APA has not slowed in its march towards a polysexual future. The 1994 edition of the DSM (DSM-IV)
further altered its definitions of ‘paraphilias’ or sexual perversions. In order for an individual to be
considered to have a paraphilia – such as sado-masochism, voyeurism,
exhibitionism, and pedophilia – the DSM requires that, in addition to having or
acting on such impulses, the patient’s “fantasies, sexual urges or behaviors”
must “cause clinically significant distress or impairment in social,
occupational or other important areas of functioning.” In other words, it’s only a ‘problem’ if
it’s a problem for the patient. In
the 2013 DSM-V, ‘gender identity disorder,’ in reference to transsexualism, was
replaced with a more neutral phrase, ‘gender dysphoria,’ in the context of an
embrace of hormone therapy and gender-reassignment surgery as clinical
‘best-practice.’ (To a considerable
extent, transgenderism has now replaced homosexuality as the next psychological
and civil-rights frontier.)
As
the mainstream psychiatric and psychological associations abandoned science (and
credibility) on these issues, dissenting practitioners established the National
Association for Research and Therapy of Homosexuality (NARTH), which continues
to regard homosexuality as a treatable dysfunction. This particular part of
contemporary history has been discussed at length to make the point that the
Church need not concede the science around this issue and rely on spiritual
arguments alone. The science has
been politicized from the start, and the new orthodoxy ferociously defended by
homosexual activists and their allies.
With
the science discredited, the homosexual movement was able to move into high
gear, positioning its activity as a new phase of the civil rights struggle. The public health scourge of AIDS in the
1980s was turned to an occasion for public sympathy, which took care to skim
over the key behaviors which led to the epidemic (some may recall the ostracism
which commentator Andy Rooney received in the late 1980s for simply stating the
fact, on the television program 60 Minutes, that HIV/AIDS is overwhelmingly a
disease of receptive anal intercourse).
Only a few in the medical community remember that the original name for
this illness was GRID – “gay-related immune disorder.” The nomenclature was changed to direct
attention away from origins of the epidemic.
Gay
activists took pains to portray homosexual life, especially among male
homosexuals, as patterned upon heterosexual norms. It was important to avoid
alienating otherwise sympathetic heterosexuals by confronting them with the
realities of the gay lifestyle. One
late-80s activist guide recommends, for example, that “In any campaign to win
over the public, gays must be portrayed as victims . . . Persons featured in the
media campaign should be . . . indistinguishable from the straights we’d like to
reach.”18 Another
strikes a similar note: “The masses must not be repulsed by premature exposure
to homosexual behavior itself.”19
Organizing
took place on college campuses and in high schools, where so-called
‘Gay-Straight Alliance’ clubs became a common feature. Idealistic young people were recruited
and indoctrinated with the new post-scientific mythology of homosexuality’s
normality and innocuousness. These
new orthodoxies are now largely institutionalized in curricula.
In
academia, certain faculty in the humanities began to gravitate to studies
related to homosexual figures, influences, themes, and the rapidly-evolving
cultural landscape itself. These
specialists began to coalesce into their own field, with the first program in
‘gay and lesbian studies’ established at the City University of New York in
1986, and the first department of ‘Queer Studies’ (officially the Gay, Lesbian
and Bisexual Studies Department) established at the City College of San
Francisco in 1989. At present,
there are over 40 such university programs and departments. Emerging from the activity of these
specialists came, by the early 1990s, ‘Queer Theory’, which challenges the idea
that sexual activity or identity is part of the essential self, and that all
such identities are merely social constructs. The anarchist thinking is obvious; those
who recognize its post-structuralist roots are, of course, correct.
In
the military, a historic ban on homosexuals in the service was modified to a so
called Don’t Ask Don’t Tell (DADT) policy in 1994 that excluded closeted
homosexuals. This nuance was
eliminated by a bipartisan act of Congress in 2010. Despite assurances that the
repeal of DADT would have no adverse effect on discipline, serving officers
report that homosexuals now flaunt their orientation and behavior, in mockery of
traditionally-minded officers and service personnel. In 2016, the Defense Department lifted
the ban on transgender individuals serving openly in the military, and provided
funding for hormone therapy and surgery for service personnel wishing to
transition their gender.
The
broadcast media, ever alert to social trends and fashionable left-wing causes,
began aggressively to insert homosexual characters and themes into television
and films. It is almost quaint to
recall some of the early homosexual characters on television (older readers may
recall a portrayal by Paul Burke in a 1970 episode of the television series
Medical Center, where he sadly declares to a teary-eyed woman with a romantic
interest in him, “I am a homosexual – not
one of the obvious ones, thank God!”).
Times change. By 2003, we
had Queer Eye for the Straight Guy, based on the premise that homosexual men are
superior to heterosexual men in matters of fashion, style, personal grooming,
interior design, and culture.
Homosexual characters are often depicted on television as wittier,
hipper, more creative, and better dressed than straights – in every way, a
superior class of human. They are
also represented vastly out of proportion to their incidence in the general
population. This has affected
public perceptions to the point that a 2011 Gallup survey found that “U.S.
adults, on average, estimate that 25% of Americans are gay or lesbian” (versus
an actual figure of around 1.6%).
As
the homosexual rights project became increasingly institutionalized in the
public’s mind as a civil rights struggle, homosexuals began to seek – and
receive – protected class status.
This has led to the assertion of a full range of ‘rights’: to nondiscrimination in housing,
employment, and retail trade, to adoption, and most recently, to marriage. This progression is unstoppable, given
the assumptions of officially secular (and some not officially secular)
governments, and the suppression of contrary science. Politicians, rarely better (and often
worse) than the publics they serve, have responded both to these changes in
public attitude, and also, to the political clout of organized homosexual
activists. The assertiveness of
organized homosexual pressure groups has already been discussed; their
significant financial commitments to sympathetic (or purchasable) politicians
should not be underestimated. Nor
have the courts been a source of restraint; to the contrary, they have been
quicker to appreciate the implications of protected class status. Although politicians, in 1996, could
still be influenced to pass the Defense of Marriage Act (excusing states from
recognizing marriages in other states not recognized in theirs), a 5-4 majority
of the US Supreme Court struck that down in 2013, and the same 5-4 majority in
the 2015 Obergefell decision established homosexual marriage as a constitutional
right in the United States of America, superseding all previous federal, state,
and local legislation and judicial decisions to the contrary.
The
Obergefell decision, by the way, enjoys wide popular support. A May 2016 Gallup poll found that 61% of
adult Americans agree with the Court’s judgment that same-sex marriages be
legally recognized, similar to the 58% found in a 2013 WP-ABC survey; in the
latter poll, support among younger adults under age 30 exceeded 80%. Polls in Western Europe find similar
sentiments.
Activist
groups have not been inclined to be generous in victory, and openly call for
private associations (including the Church) to ‘change with the times.’ Many organizations have already
submitted to these demands. A
number of large mainstream Protestant denominations – the United Church of
Christ (UCC), Episcopal Church, Evangelical Lutheran Church in America (ELCA),
and Presbyterian Church – USA (PCUSA) – ordain openly homosexual clergy, and are
moving to (or have already established) ceremonies that recognize same-sex
unions. The Boy Scouts, one of
whose stated methods is to provide ‘strong male role models,’ now allow openly
homosexual leaders, following the opening of the youth ranks to self-identified
homosexual Scouts, although these are officially barred from engaging in
homosexual activity at events. Girl
Scouts and Camp Fire are officially ‘inclusive,’ and prominent LGBT women are
held up as role models. Uniformed
Boy and Girl Scouts participate in Gay Pride marches.
In
response to a 2012 state law, California public schools have developed curricula
“that ensures kindergarten through 12th-grade students learn about
LGBT figures and the roles they played in shaping society.” Proposed themes and topics include
“Teaching second graders about family diversity and non-traditional families”,
and fourth-grade lessons on the “possibilities and motivations for same-sex
relationships in Gold Rush-era California.”
The
American Academy of Pediatrics has endorsed the adoption of children by
homosexual couples.
Nearly
all large public universities, in pursuit of diversity goals, have active
programs to identify and support self-identified LGBTQ students.
Punitive
measures are imposed on individuals whose Christian consciences will not permit
them to facilitate same-sex unions.
In Oregon, a couple that refused to bake a cake for a gay wedding was
fined by the state’s commissioner for labor and industries an enormous sum that
bankrupted their business, making of them an ‘example.’ Others call for the withdrawal of
tax-exempt status for traditionalist religious groups, on the grounds that they
‘discriminate.’ First Amendment
protections of religious expression and association are summarily dismissed with
the slogan, “freedom of religion is not freedom to discriminate.”
The
attention of activist groups has now turned to mainstreaming a wide range of
transgendered identities, seeking to institutionalize the ‘Queer Theory’
mentioned earlier, asserting that all gender identities are essentially a matter
of taste, and should be fully supported and accommodated by society.
That’s
how the revolution happened, and where is stands today. Let’s turn now to the science.
Our
discussion of the science of homosexuality will systematically refute numbers 1,
2, and 3 of the ‘four core beliefs.’
Number 4 will be examined in the context of Christian anthropology –
i.e., the Church’s understanding of the human person and condition in the world.
First,
what is the incidence of homosexual identity in the general population?
The
National Health Interview Survey (NHIS), which is the government’s principal
tool for assessing Americans’ health and behaviors found that 1.6% of adults
self-identify as homosexual, while 0.7% consider themselves bisexual.
This
is consistent with the 2013 Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC)
survey, in which 2.3% of the population identifies itself as homosexual or
bisexual. This was the first
large-scale government survey measuring Americans’ sexual orientation.
Separately,
an analysis of 2014 CDC survey data in 19 states, by the Williams Institute at
the UCLA School of Law found that 0.6% of adults self-identify as transgender.
The
overwhelming majority of adults, 96.6%, labeled themselves as heterosexual in
the 2013 survey. An additional 1.1% declined to answer, responding “I don’t know
the answer,” or that they were “something else;” this percentage (and the latter
response) is consistent with the number of people who self-identify as
‘asexual’, a choice not provided in the NHIS.
The
figures are lower than some earlier estimates of the size of the homosexual and
bisexual population, which have typically placed the overall proportion of
homosexual identity among men at 2.8% and among women at 1.4% (an aggregate rate
of 2.1%), and bisexual identity at 1.8%.
Needless to say, these figures are all dramatically lower than the
long-discredited Kinsey ‘10%.’
Recent
surveys in the UK and Western Europe yield similar results.
Let’s
consider each of the ‘four core beliefs’.
The first was: Homosexuals
are born that way.
Is
homosexuality genetic? Is it
innate? Or in colloquial language,
are homosexuals ‘born that way’?
In
reality, the proper scientific question should be, in the words of one
psychiatrist,
To
what degree is homosexuality (or any other behavioral trait) genetic and
non-genetic, innate and acquired, familial and non-familial,
intrauterineinfluenced and extrauterine-influenced, affected by the environment
and independent of the environment, responsive to social cues and unresponsive
to these cues, and when and in what sequence do these various influences emerge
to generate their effects and how do they interact with one another; and after
we have put these all together, how much is left over to attribute to choice,
repetition, and habit?20
This
is a much more difficult question to answer, although it is the proper
scientific question. However, let
us consider our original questions.
To
begin, we should first clarify the distinction between ‘genetic’ and
‘innate.’ A trait is ‘genetic’ if
it is found in the subject’s genetic coding, and consequently heritable from
generation to generation. Such
genes may be expressed, not expressed (e.g., recessive), or partially expressed
(usually through the action of multiple genes).
‘Innate’
is a much broader term that encompasses both traits that are genetic, and those
which are acquired through other physical/biological means, such as the action
of hormones and other influences on intrauterine development.
With
respect to a purely genetic link to homosexuality, some scientific research
exists.
In
1993, American geneticist Dean Hamer, a scientist at the US National Cancer
Institute, found in a study of 100 homosexual men, families with several gay
males on the mother’s side, suggesting a gene on the X chromosome. His research
asserted that pairs of brothers who were openly homosexual shared a small region
at the tip of the X chromosome, and proposed that it contained a gene that
predisposes a male to homosexuality.
Hamer’s conclusions were controversial, and later studies appeared to
contradict his results.
A
larger study of gay brothers in 2013 at Northwestern University, using the many
genetic markers now available through the Human Genome Project, tended to
confirm Hamer’s work. A region of
the X chromosome called Xq28 had some correlation with men's sexual behavior –
although scientists had no idea which of the many genes in the region are
involved, nor how many lie elsewhere in the genome. Another stretch of DNA on chromosome 8
also appeared to play a role in male sexual orientation – though again the
precise mechanism was unclear.
Much
recent work in psychiatric genetics indicates that expression of traits is often
correlated not simply with the presence or absence of a genetic marker, but by
the number of copies of a particular gene in the DNA (i.e., by the number of
copy number variants, or CNVs) – which considerably complicates any predictive
analysis.
What
is striking about these gene studies, in general, is how weakly they correlate
with actual expressed sexual identity.
Studies of identical twins, which share exactly the same DNA, show that
the identical twin of a homosexual man is more likely to identify as straight
than gay.21 This means
that even a perfect genetic test, which recognized every gene linked to sexual
orientation, would less predictive of future orientation than flipping a coin.
For
this reason, it is best to regard genetic markers as predisposing, but by no
means determinative. Similar
genetic markers exist for both alcoholism and drug addiction. To use an athletic example, genes for
height may predispose one to play basketball, but do not mean that one will
necessarily participate in the sport.
Compared
to the search for ‘gay genes’, the research into intrauterine influences reveals
more candidates. Hormones have an
important role in fetal sex differentiation, and so anomalies in hormonal
exposure may affect sexual orientation or gender identity in the developing
fetus.
Recent
studies have provided evidence suggesting the effect of prenatal androgen levels
on future sexual behavior. It has long been known, for example, that birth order
is correlated with incidence of homosexual identity (younger brothers have a
higher rate), and androgen levels are known to vary with birth order. Similarly, stress hormones can cross the
placental barrier and interfere with a fetus’ production of sex hormones, and
studies have suggested that maternal stress during pregnancy is correlated with
a higher incidence of homosexual and bisexual identity in offspring.
There
are a number of other hormones potentially implicated in a predisposition to
homosexuality, but the research is typically only suggestive, rather than
conclusive.
Again
we refer back to the identical twin studies. Identical twins are not only genetically
the same, they also have the same intrauterine influences. As we noted before, the identical twin
of a homosexual man is more likely to be straight than gay. That means that even
a full accounting of all genetic and intrauterine effects – that is, all innate
factors – is still less predictive of future sexuality than flipping a
coin.22
Biological
determinism is a double-edged sword for gay activists, as they sometimes only
belatedly realize. Modern medicine
allows for prenatal genetic screening, which can be used to abort fetuses with a
predisposition to homosexuality.
Similarly, intrauterine influences predisposing to homosexuality may be
treatable in future during pregnancy, just as we administer folic acid to
mothers to prevent spinal bifida.
However,
any science that overtly seeks to correct errors in sexual orientation is
subject to attack by gay activists and their allies.
In
1995, Oregon Health Sciences University (OHSU), Oregon State University (OSU),
and the USDA Sheep Experiment Station at Dubois, Idaho, began researching the
phenomenon of ‘male-oriented’ rams – obviously less valuable for breeding
purposes – with a view to identifying genetic markers or developing prenatal
corrective treatments. In 2006,
this project came to attention of gay activists, and prominent homosexuals such
as Martina Navratilova loudly decried the study.23 To their credit, OHSU and OSU have
continued the research, which suggests that intrauterine hormonal effects may
keep the brain from fully masculinizing, leading to sexually male-oriented
rams.24
If
genetic and intrauterine influences are less predicative of future sexuality
than a coin flip, then clearly, post-natal environmental factors must be of
great importance: family structure,
socialization, personal choices and experiences. There is no question that these
environmental influences have a significant influence on the development of
sexuality; in fact, there were over eighty years of research and clinical
experience in this field which the APA chose to overlook in its 1973 decision.
The
clinical and research record indicates that in the background of homosexuals one
or more of the following is often present:
•
an
emotional mismatch between the child and same-sex parent, such as the overt or
implied rejection by a hyper-masculine father of a son who is sensitive by
nature and unenthusiastic about the father’s interests
•
an
emotional mismatch between the child and the opposite sex parent, creating
alienation towards the opposite sex
•
sexual
abuse of the child by either parent
•
a
rejection of the child by his or her same-sex peers
The
first of these may give rise to a profound longing for love from that parent, a
longing that may be enacted in later relations with peers of the same sex. This longing may also become sexualized
– that is, linked to the anxiety-relieving capacity of orgasm.
The
second of these may give rise to the child’s fear of that parent, which will
likely show itself later as a heightened wariness and avoidance of opposite-sex
relations.
It
should be mentioned that support for these concepts is hardly limited to those
who see homosexuality in negative terms.
Social critic and historian Camille Paglia, herself a prominent
homosexual figure for decades, strongly supports this view. Dr. Paglia wrote the following:
I
have said many times before that I do not believe homosexuality is inborn but
that it is an adaptation to specific circumstances and possibilities. What many gay men are remembering as
their innate gayness was in fact some other attribute (often an artistic gene)
that may have led to a dislocation from roughhousing male bonding. The sex instinct, which comes later, is
in my view heavily symbolic among human beings . . . . I understand the
biological imperative of hormones, which drive male and female to mate and
reproduce. But why is anyone
entirely gay? It seems
incontrovertible to me that at root there is indeed a dissatisfaction of some
kind with the opposite sex, grounded in early experiences and reinforced in
adolescence. There is not a single
gay person whom I have known over the course of my life since high school for
whom childhood factors played no role whatever in his or her adult choice. And yes, behavior is a choice, even if
fantasy and imagination are uncontrollable.25
Many
studies describe the complex interactions between these and other factors, which
are characterized as ‘psychic traumas.’
What is important to recognize is that first, the susceptibility to such
traumas varies widely between individuals (i.e., some are highly sensitive to
these influences, while others are more resilient), and second, that it is the
individual’s perception of these influences that is decisive, rather than an
objective measure of harmfulness.
Obviously, sexual or physical abuse are objectively harmful, although
individual resilience varies; emotional factors are more subjective and
difficult to quantify. This point
should be emphasized because parental behavior, for example, can range from
being objectively “bad” to “good,” while still not meeting the needs of a child,
through no fault of the parents.
Although
these types of trauma are unusually common in the childhoods of homosexuals,
there may be other, less typical, traumas present. Even more generalized disturbances in
family life, such as parental separation and loss, are correlated with an
increased incidence in homosexual identification.
Whatever
the source of trauma, it can lead to the use of self-medicating, anxietyreducing
behaviors: alcohol and drug abuse,
promiscuity, homosexuality, and others.
An individual will often combine more than one of these behaviors; hence,
the correlation between homosexuality, and drug and alcohol abuse. These behaviors are at first soothing,
then habitual, then compulsive, and finally addictive.
As
with many behaviors, repetitive experiences of these kind rewire the brain
(specifically, the neocortex) over time; we become ‘hard wired’ to certain
behaviors. This physically alters
the brain in ways that cannot be entirely undone, if at all, and so will be
modified only with great difficulty. Connections in the pleasure centers of the
brain are particularly powerful, releasing opioid chemicals; the pleasure areas
of the brain are most intensely activated at the moment of sexual orgasm; this
is why any time chastity is lost, the road back to it is so difficult. Modification therefore requires a
greater effort of will, additional repetition of the new behavior, and more
time, the more deeply embedded in the brain the old behavior has become.
Let’s
consider the second of the ‘four core beliefs’: Same-sex attraction is immutable.
Is
same-sex attraction, from whatever combination of innate and environmental
factors, immutable? Can it be
altered through treatment?
The
answer to the first question is unquestionably, ‘no’; to the second, a qualified
‘yes’.
With
respect to the first, we may begin with a basic statistic: three out of four
boys who think they are homosexual at age 16 aren’t by age 25, with no
intervention whatsoever.26
That sexual identity is mutable is an evident fact, not even worth
serious debate.
In
discussing the treatment of same-sex attraction or active homosexuality, the
chilling effect of the suppression of science should again be noted. Between 1966 and 1974, over one thousand
articles on the treatment of homosexuality were published in academic and
professional journals; between 1975 and 1979, fortytwo; in the early 1990s, one.
Notwithstanding
the suppression of research and the discouragement of clinical practice, many
groups across the country do treat homosexuality, with a success rate at least
comparable to the treatment of other addictions. Since most of these (although not all)
are ministries which generate little ‘hard’ data, this enables hostile skeptics
to remain invincibly resistant to acknowledging their effectiveness.
As
has been suggested, the success rate varies significantly based on the extent to
which habituation has taken place.
For those who have not yet begun acting on the behaviors that lead to
addiction, education and counseling can be very effective. Once addiction is present, the
therapeutic needs become dramatically different.
In
2003 testimony, psychiatrist Jeffrey Satinover noted
A
review of the research over many years demonstrates a consistent 30-52% success
rate in the treatment of unwanted homosexual attraction. Masters and Johnson reported a 65%
success rate after a five-year follow up.
Other professionals report success rates ranging from 30% to
70%.27
Remarkably,
Dr. Robert Spitzer, who as head of the APA nomenclature committee had written
and steered through the 1973 DSM change, came to agree. In 2001 he conducted his own study of
200 subjects on the mutability of sexual identity, expecting it to discredit
therapeutic approaches. Instead, he
found the contrary. Spitzer wrote:
There
is evidence that change in sexual orientation following some form of reparative
therapy does occur in some gay men and lesbians . . . the majority of
participants gave reports of change from a predominantly or exclusively
homosexual orientation before therapy to a predominantly or exclusively
heterosexual orientation in the past year . . . I approached this quite
skeptical, and I’ve been convinced otherwise.
Warned
that publication of his paper would constitute professional suicide, Spitzer
nevertheless delivered it at the 2001 annual APA meeting28 and
submitted it to the journal Archives of Sexual Behavior.29 Retribution was not long in coming, as
gay activists furiously attacked this ‘treason’ from a figure prominent in their
founding mythology. Spitzer for
years defended his work, nor were any flaws in it ever found.29 However, social pressure took its
toll, and in 2012, nearly 80 years old and suffering from Parkinson’s, Dr.
Spitzer ‘recanted’ before gay activists.
His Dutch colleague, Dr. Gerard van den Aardweg, said that in discussing
potential follow up research with Dr. Spitzer, the latter replied that “he would
never touch the whole subject ever again.
He had nearly broken down emotionally after terrible personal attacks
from militant gays and their supporters.
There was an outpouring of hatred.”30
In
an affidavit, Dr. Michelle Cretella testified that
Despite
Dr. Spitzer’s ‘apology’ to the homosexual community for publishing this study,
there has been no new data to contradict his original results. Dr. Spitzer’s research remain
scientifically sound , and his original conclusion – that some highly motivated
individuals with unwanted homosexual attraction can change – still stands. This is why Dr. Kenneth Zucker, editor
of the Archives of Sexual Behavior, never published an official retraction of
Spitzer’s study.31
Dr.
van den Aarweg reported similar results from his own therapeutic work:
From
extensive analysis of a series of 101 persons I had in treatment, I have derived
the following summarizing statements about the effectiveness of our
therapy. Of those who continued
treatment – 60% of the total group – about two-thirds reached at least a
satisfactory state of affairs for a long period of time. By this is meant that the homosexual
feelings had been reduced to occasional impulses at most while the sexual
orientation had turned predominantly heterosexual, or that the homosexual
feelings were completely absent, with or without predominance of heterosexual
interests.
Of
this group, however, about one-third could be regarded as having been changed
‘radically’. By this is meant that
they did not have any more homosexual feelings, and in addition that they showed
a fundamental change in overall emotionality from negative to positive – from
instability to reasonable, normal stability – with a follow up period of at
least two years.32
If
same-sex attraction is sometimes mutable, it cannot be immutable. One thing
should be emphasized: all of the
foregoing information relates to unwanted same-sex attraction. Once an individual has embraced a
homosexual identity, these statistics no longer apply. Sometimes clergymen are approached by
parents whose child has ‘come out’ to them as homosexual and asked, “Is there
some place we can send them?” The
answer to this is no, unless the child is ambivalent or unhappy about their
same-sex sexual attractions.
Let’s
consider the third of the ‘four core beliefs: Homosexuality is normal. Is homosexuality ‘normal’? Are active homosexuals ‘just like
everyone else’ from a social standpoint, with the exception of whom they love?
The
answer of science to that question, from a medical and epidemiological
standpoint, is that active male homosexuality is a serious public health
issue. Female homosexuality,
despite differences in sexual practices and a far lower level of promiscuity,
also has a surprisingly high correlation with early mortality.
A
principal driver in male homosexual health outcomes is the practice of anal
intercourse, which is practiced by a large majority of homosexual men. The most rigorous single study, the
Multicenter AIDS Cohort Study of nearly five thousand homosexual men, found that
over 80% had engaged in receptive anal intercourse in the previous two
years. It should be noted that
these adverse health outcomes would exist even in the absence of the human
immunodeficiency virus, or HIV.
The lining of the rectum is quite fragile – very unlike the construction
of the vagina. Anal intercourse
tears the rectal lining of the receptive partner, regardless of whether a condom
is worn, and the subsequent contact with highly toxic fecal matter leads to a
host of diseases, many of which are virtually unknown among non-homosexuals.
The
risk of anal cancer soars for those engaging in anal intercourse. According to
one study, it rises by an astounding 4,000%, and doubles again for those who are
HIV positive.33
When
combined with promiscuity and other oral-anal practices of active male
homosexuals, the litany of their characteristic illnesses is extensive, and
should be sufficient to establish the public health dimensions of these
behaviors. These include:
•
the
usual sexually transmitted diseases, such as gonorrhea, Chlamydia trachomatis,
syphilis, herpes simplex virus, human papilloma virus, pubic lice, and scabies
•
enteric
diseases, such as infections with Shigella species, Campylobacter jejuni,
Entamoeba histolytica, Giardia lamblia (‘gay bowel disease’), Hepatitis A, B, C,
and D, and cytomegalovirus
•
trauma,
related to and/or resulting in fecal incontinence, hemorrhoids, anal fissures,
foreign bodies lodged in the rectum, rectosigmoid tears from the insertion of
foreign objects, allergic proctitis, penile edema, chemical sinusitis, inhaled
nitrite burns, and sexual assault of the patient
throat
and oral cancers
•
and
last, but certainly not least, acquired immunodeficiency syndrome, or AIDS
Again,
it must be emphasized that many of these problems are independent of whether or
not condoms are worn. And many
homosexual men, particularly those in long-term relationships, prefer not to use
them. In their absence, various
immune diseases can be added to the list, stemming from the introduction of
foreign biological matter into the intestinal tract. And some are related to sexual practices
other than anal intercourse.
Promiscuity
is a striking characteristic of male homosexuality. Depending on the survey, monogamy or
semi-monogamy (10 or fewer lifetime partners) is practiced by less than 2% of
respondents.34 Even for
those in committed long-term relationships, monogamy is rare. In one study of couples, less than 5%
maintained fidelity, and of 100 couples in the research that had been together
for at least five years, none had.35 The Multicenter AIDS Cohort Study found
that a significant majority of men (69-83%) reported having 50 or more lifetime
sexual partners.
Other
studies report dramatically higher numbers; one study found that 43% of male
homosexuals estimated having sex with 500 or more different partners, and 28%
with 1,000 or more different partners. Seventy-nine percent said that more than
half of these partners were strangers, and 70% said that more than half were men
with whom they had sex only once.36
These
numbers rise with age, as one would expect; many older respondents return
answers such as “over 1,000”, “too many to count”, or “I have no idea.” Average partners during the last twelve
months average eight. If we factor
in the reality that male homosexuals are a very small proportion of the
population and constitute a relatively closed group, the communicability of
illnesses is correspondingly magnified.
By
contrast, the authors of Sex in America found that 90% of heterosexual women and
more than 75% of heterosexual men have never engaged in extramarital sex.
These
statistics should be sufficient to establish that the behavior of male
homosexual couples is not, in general, ‘just like everybody else.’
A
study of data collected by the 2013 and 2014 National Health Interview Surveys
by the Vanderbilt School of Medicine and the University of Minnesota School of
Public Health37 found significant health disparities among male
homosexuals, lesbians, and bisexuals.
Compared to heterosexual women, lesbians were 91% more likely to report
poor or fair health; bisexual women were over 100% more likely to report
multiple chronic conditions, compared to heterosexual women. Homosexual men, lesbians, and bisexuals
were all more likely than their heterosexual counterparts to experience
psychological distress, and to drink and smoke heavily.
These
characteristic and chronic health problems translate, collectively, to a
significant reduction in lifespan for homosexuals, as compared with
heterosexuals. In a 1997 study in
the International Journal of Epidemiology, the median age of homosexual men
dying from all kinds of causes was 42, compared to 75 for married men generally,
and 57 for unmarried men generally. And the median age of lesbians at death was
45 compared to 79 for married women, and 71 for unmarried women generally.
It
should be noted that this study was done at a time when mortality from HIV/AIDS
was much higher than it is today.
Since treatment has improved significantly since then, the mortality rate
for homosexual men has likely improved.
Unfortunately, there is little, if any, recent research specific to this
topic, as any research with the potential to cast homosexual behavior in a
negative light has become politically toxic to undertake. However, the
Vanderbilt/Minnesota
study cited above suggests continued poorer health outcomes, and consequent
higher rates of mortality.
What
is striking in this study is the high mortality for homosexual women, who have
been relatively unaffected by the AIDS epidemic, and who generally experience
fewer physical illnesses related to promiscuity. This suggests that underlying drivers
for them are higher-than-average rates of emotional problems and related
addictive behaviors, which, as noted previously, are highly correlated with
homosexual behavior.
Statistically,
active homosexuality has a negative effect on life expectancy. The ‘gay lifestyle’ is neither gay nor a
lifestyle – it is more accurately characterized as a destructive addiction. And like alcoholism and drug addiction,
these impacts cannot effectively be addressed except through treatment,
behavioral change, and support.
Let’s
consider the last of the ‘four core beliefs: Orientation equals behavior and
self-identity. Are all the desires
that humans experience natural to man, and therefore proper to pursue to the
extent they do not involuntarily injure others? And if one is inclined to a certain
behavior, does that inclination define one’s essential self?
This
is the view of much of contemporary society. If for the Romans homosexuality was a
behavior one chose to engage in, today many regard it as a core ‘identity.’ Given this definition, discussion of
changing homosexuality is viewed as hating ‘who someone is,’ rather than
addressing a behavioral issue.
As
Christians, we understand that we were created with a higher part of the soul in
spiritual union with God; that we are fallen creatures that have lost that
spiritual union, and who therefore are at war within ourselves; and that we
earnestly desire, in the very depths of our soul, to reestablish that lost union
with God. We may attempt to
medicate the pain of that lost union – to fill the resulting void – with many
things: money, power, possessions,
physical pleasures of various kinds.
But none of these things can compensate for that loss; none can cure the
underlying illness.
In
our fallen state, we have an ‘orientation’ to passions of many kinds. Sexual passions are merely one of
these. As fallen human beings, we
have an
‘orientation’
to gluttony, an ‘orientation’ to abuse alcohol or drugs, an ‘orientation’ prone
to anger and judging, an ‘orientation’ for laziness, an ‘orientation’ of
indifference to God and our fellow man.
When we treat same-sex attraction as an identity, we are equating an
individual with a passion. It is
only when we begin to heal our fallen nature that we begin to transcend these
‘orientations’ – our passions – and to live as children of God.
It
was to heal fallen mankind that the second Person of the Trinity took on our
nature and entered into the world as Jesus Christ, uniting Divinity to our
humanity. By this salvific act a
path was opened for fallen humanity to enter into union with the Creator, and to
become fully realized individuals in God.
Having chosen to walk this path and enter the Church is the core
‘identity’ of any Christian.
Although one may exercise various roles in society – parent, worker,
teacher, student, and the like – none of these roles are ‘identities’ in the
same sense that we have an identity as Christians.
As
we are created as a natural union of soul and body, our gender identity is
mirrored within soul and body. In
our fallen state, the intrinsic harmony of soul and body is lost; the body no
longer serves the soul, but struggles with it. If our psychological identity and urges
are at variance from our body’s gender, this is also a consequence of the Fall
and the resulting struggle. This is
in stark contrast to the attitudes of our secular society, which assigns, as did
the ancient Greeks, personal identity entirely to the mind. This essentially pagan, secular attitude
was eloquently expressed by Chastity Bono (daughter of singers Cher & Sonny
Bono) on Good Morning America, shortly before beginning sexual reassignment
surgery: “Gender is between your
ears, not between your legs.”
And
so to the question recently posed to a one Christian leader in a public hearing,
and to which he gave a halting and most unsatisfactory answer – “Do you believe
that God made me gay?” – we can confidently give an answer to the correct, if
only implied, question, “No, God did not create anyone to live their life as a
homosexual.”
As
one considers the extraordinary fabric of falsehoods and suppression of the
truth that has characterized the evolution of this issue in the West, it is
impossible not to hear the laughter of our ancient Enemy, the Father of
Lies. This is one of his greatest
masterpieces. Indeed, it is almost
incomprehensible that gay activists, a small subset of people within a tiny
minority, have been able to overturn reality within an entire culture in so
short a period, unless it be with the help of an ancient intelligence and malice
that we can scarcely comprehend.
That
the Enemy enjoys the degradation of humanity is a given. But always, his ultimate target is the
Ark of Salvation itself, the Church – to bring it under ostracism and
persecution, and to direct people away from its saving message. That the kindly intentions of
well-meaning people have been turned to hostility towards the Church’s
traditional teaching, and towards the Church herself, is an extraordinary
accomplishment of his malice and art.
One
of the most tragic aspects of this new social orthodoxy is that rather than
guiding those who struggle with this passion to counseling and support, they are
now subject to relentless propaganda that rejects any consideration of seeking
help, and urges them to whole-heartedly embrace a self-destructive path. It is as if we told drug addicts, ‘hey,
it’s okay that you want to do drugs, it’s who you are – just be sure to use
clean needles.’ An absurdity, to be
sure, but this is essentially what homosexuals and pre-homosexuals are now
told. And this view, if embraced by
the sufferer, will likely separate them from the Church.
We
have discussed in the preceding sections the general success rates of
therapeutic approaches to this problem.
Most of these were purely secular approaches, although some were
ministries. As with Alcoholics
Anonymous (AA) and Narcotics Anonymous (NA), the introduction of a spiritual
dimension measurably increases success rates, and so many of the most successful
programs have been ministries.
And
this is unsurprising. Beyond the
mere acknowledgment of a higher power that can affect the lives of men, a
genuine understanding of the nature of man is, and should be, invaluable in
treating the ailments of our fallen state.
Only
a few of us have the training to treat addiction. So what can be done, in a practical way,
to help someone who is struggling with this passion?
To
begin, we will say very directly and emphatically, that the first rule is not to
judge anyone for experiencing this passion. Flee judging like the plague. Not only will it make it almost certain
that any counsel you offer will be rejected, but when you judge, you fall into
sin yourself. So guard your
soul. Remember, in our fallen state
we are all subject to many passions, of which this is just one – not something
uniquely sinful and set apart.
Certainly,
we may counsel individuals who are struggling with feelings of same sex
attraction that have not yet begun to act upon them. We want to lead them to question the
‘four core beliefs’ generally, but especially number 4, which has the potential
to lead them down a self-fulfilling path.
You will recall that that one said:
Orientation equals self-identity and behavior. Once a person experiences same-sex
attraction, that is who they are.
Let’s
look at some practical examples.
Say
you have a young friend who confides to you that they are experiencing same sex
attraction, and say they ‘think they might be gay.’ The first thing you might do is to tell
them that it’s normal to experience many physical attractions at their age, and
that it doesn’t necessarily mean that this is how they’re going to be long-term.
If
your friend is an Orthodox Christian, you should definitely encourage them to
discuss their feelings with their spiritual father. This may seem obvious, but the reality
is that many people are ashamed to tell their confessor all their thoughts, for
fear of being judged and rejected.
Actually, the reverse is true; father confessors hold in high regard
their spiritual children who speak frankly and hold nothing back: in the words
of one bishop, “they are the most precious treasures.”
If
your friend is not Orthodox, one thing you should tell them is that they have
choices in life that are their choices, and that they shouldn’t feel pressured
to behave or live in a certain way just because someone puts a label on
them. You might warn them against
getting ‘counseling’ or ‘help’ from LGBTQ organizations, because “they’re
basically going to put a label on you and tell you how to live.” This ‘appeal to freedom’, if we may so
term it, is especially attractive in a culture that extols personal liberty,
however often misapplied. It
legitimizes a cautious and waiting approach, rather than encouraging
experimentation. In other words –
“don’t be in a hurry.”
If
the topic of pornography comes up, you can express the opinion that “it’s bad
news, and basically messes up your mind.”
This is a subject unto itself that could be discussed at great length,
but in the context of this topic one should recall the processes of
desensitization, habituation, and addiction; exposure to pornography presents a
false impression of reality, creates an addictive response, and hardens us to
things that we would by nature reject.
Depending
on your situation, and your relationship, you might express concerns about the
destructive physical aspects of the lifestyle.
How
do we respond in the situation where a friend embraces an alternative sexual
identity, and begins to live ‘the lifestyle?’
This
is one of the hardest situations to deal with, because we need to refrain from
judging them personally for having made the decision, while not implicitly
endorsing or ‘affirming’ their choice.
It is appropriate to reassure people of your friendship, while expressing
frankly your concerns about the destructive physical and spiritual effects of
their lifestyle. For someone who is
not religious, or whose spirituality is accepting of homosexuality, this might
prompt the question: “What
spiritual effects?” To this, we
should simple reply that our understanding of spiritual life is that we are
striving to transcend, or overcome, our passions – and that to identify with any
one of them makes this difficult or impossible. Some people might not ‘get’ that, but in
some cases, it may prompt a genuine curiosity about what our faith does teach.
To
be sure, some individuals will not let you make that distinction – being their
friend, but not ‘affirming’ their lifestyle. They will make their friendship
conditional upon your approval of their behavior. Be aware that in some cases this stems
from insecurity – they need to hear everyone say that everything’s fine, that
it’s ‘cool’ that they’re gay.
Withholding that much-desired approval can sometimes, in the long run,
help them to question the choice.
Sometimes we will lose friends, but always put them on the spot first
with what they’re doing – “So I have to approve of everything you do, to be your
friend?” (And to the likely retort, “It’s who I am”, the reply: “No, it’s not who you are – it’s only a
way you are.”)
What
about family? How should a
Christian family deal with a member that has embraced an alternative sexual
identity and abandoned the Church, either for secularism or for a religious
organization supportive of their new lifestyle? Everything just said about friends in
this situation applies to family members, except that it is even more difficult
and painful. Many families simply
cut off these individuals since, admittedly, they are very poor role models for
younger family members. On the
other hand, people in this situation are already self-isolated to a considerable
extent within the ‘LGBTQ community,’ which is a self-reinforcing
subculture. Giving them continuing
exposure to normal, healthy family life may be helpful in leading them to
question that subculture.
Naturally, boundaries must be established, but in speaking to therapists
who work in this area, their guidance is to err on the side of more contact,
rather than less. It will only be
when the individual desires to change that change will be possible – just as it
would be if the person were addicted to alcohol or drugs. Beyond prayer, the only practical step
may be for family members to simply ask that individual, from time to time –
“Are you happy?” And perhaps then
there will be an opening, at some point, to introduce the idea that change is
possible, if they desire it.
Finally,
what if you, yourself, are experiencing same-sex attraction?
This
discussion should have equipped you with much information that will be
helpful. Again, your spiritual
father should be a key resource.
If, for some reason, he is not helpful to you, you should seek out
another priest who can counsel you constructively in dealing with this
particular passion.
Sometimes
general counseling and spiritual support will be sufficient to address this
passion. However, at some point you
and your spiritual father may decide to call upon outside resources, especially
if habituation has already taken place.
With
respect to secular resources, the NARTH Institute will make referrals to
qualified therapists. It should be
noted that this will be done strictly in keeping with the desire of the
prospective patient. Remember that
the positive results of treatment described previously were achieved by ‘highly
motivated’ patients, who earnestly desired to change. Let us also recall that in some states,
it is illegal for individuals under eighteen to receive this type of therapy,
even if they want it. Sadly, it may
be necessary to wait for the assistance of a professional therapist, if you’re
under 18, although it would be better to first try to find a workaround with a
qualified therapist, or to approach a faith-based ministry.
For
in addition to secular resources, there are many ministries that work with
individuals struggling with same-sex attraction, sometimes in cooperation with
NARTH, and often staffed by people who have themselves come out of the gay
lifestyle. I should mention, in
passing, how impressive these people typically are; they have truly come through
the fire, and achieved a strength, wisdom, and humility that is deeply
moving. Many have published their
own personal stories as an inspiration to others. Most of these ministries are run by
evangelicals of one stripe or another, if for no other reason than they are more
numerous on the ground, and so have the scale and resources to support a
specialist ministry. They all
emphasize that the individual is pursuing Christ, not heterosexuality, and that
by His grace change is possible (remembering, in particular, 1 Corinthians 6:11,
And such were some of you: but ye are washed, but ye are sanctified, but ye are
justified in the name of the Lord Jesus, and by the Spirit of our God). They are used to working collaboratively
with the parish pastors of the individuals they are counseling. Meeting Orthodox Christians is often a
new experience for them, but in general they are respectful and supportive of
the individual’s existing spirituality.
A worthwhile resource is a video documentary produced by one of these
groups, entitled Such Were Some of You.
The testimonies of the exhomosexuals in this film, male and female, are
truly inspiring, and have a credibility that no one without such a history can
possible have.
Remember
always that we are, first and foremost, children of God and His Church, united
to Him and to each other through the Holy Mysteries. The choices that we make in life are our
choices. God respects our free will
absolutely, and with the assistance of His grace we can make God-pleasing
choices for our lives.
It
is relevant to make some observations about a relatively new phenomenon (or, at
least, only recently receiving attention in the media) – that of ‘gay celibate
Christians.’ These are individuals
who identify as homosexual, but reconcile this with traditional Christian moral
teaching by remaining celibate.
They blog on a website entitled Spiritual Friendship
(spiritualfriendship.org), taking their name and inspiration from a treatise
written by the 12th century Cistercian monk, Aelred of
Rievaulx,38 and many speak eloquently of their personal journeys to
this position. Needless to say,
they face criticism from gay activists, who regard their position as unrealistic
and untenable for most. However,
many Christians would also assert that their position begs the question,
why? That is, if you have chosen to
live celibately, what is the relevance of your personal sexual attractions?
A
more fundamental objection can be made to this odd juxtaposition of identities,
in that it implicitly challenges the Church’s understanding of the unity of soul
and body of man as created. As
discussed in a previous section, our identity as Christians is paramount. As Daniel Mattson, a Catholic who
himself experiences same-sex attraction, wrote recently in Crisis magazine:
Despite
what most people might think, the virtue of chastity, like all other virtues,
isn’t so much concerned with what we do or don’t do. Rather, chastity is the virtue that
helps us see things truly and objectively – things as they really are – within
the realm of sexuality. This clarity of vision is necessary for true human
freedom and human flourishing. It
is chastity that gives us the freedom to order our sexual appetites and
therefore make decisions that correspond with reality. Christ lived as a chaste
man, not because He followed every dot and tittle of the law (which of course He
did), but rather, because He lived in accordance with the truth of what it means
to be a man, made in the image and likeness of God. Like Christ, a man who truly knows who
he is will naturally lead a life of chastity . . . Put more simply, the reason
it is immoral for me to live out a life according to my subjective desires and
inclinations is precisely because I am not, in fact, a gay man . . . Nor is any
man.39
Our
fallen nature is, in other words, not who we are, but a way we are. And it is by God’s grace that we can
seek to become who we truly are.
The
Church is the pillar and ground of the truth (1 Tim. 3:15), founded upon the
teachings of Jesus Christ the same yesterday, and today, and forever (Heb.
13:8).
She
is not swayed by the winds of contemporary social and political philosophies,
but continues to offer the path to the healing of the human person and the
restoration of fallen human nature.
Among the virtues, a chaste life remains the aim of every faithful
Christian. Unnatural acts are
proscribed because they are destructive of soul and body. With respect to marriage, the Church
understands it as an institution established by God before the Fall, Therefore
shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and
they shall be one flesh (Gen. 2:24), and later blessed by our Lord Jesus Christ
with His first miracle at Cana of Galilee (John 2:1-11). This understanding has not, and will
not, change.
The
Church is a spiritual hospital for fallen mankind. In the Fall, man became subject to a
multitude of infirmities of body and soul, which can find healing only through
the fullness of spiritual life within the Church, which leads to union with God
in Christ. The Church welcomes
sinners and strugglers with every passion, and offers a path of healing and
restoration to all.
Christians
in the United States should be prepared to live in a cultural environment
increasingly hostile to traditional morality in general, and to Christianity in
particular. To create such an
environment of hostility, and ultimately to bring the Church under active
persecution, has always been the aim of our invisible enemies, who indeed have
had their role in bringing about these societal changes. Given the steep trajectory of change in
societal attitudes on this issue, increasing persecution of the Church and
discrimination against Her faithful members is likely.
In
the face of such hostility and ostracism, we must respond with both truth and
love. We must live up to our
highest aspirations, making clear the other-worldly dimension of
Christianity. Our forbearers
emerged into the world of late-classical antiquity with a radical,
life-transforming alternative to the worldview of pagan society; increasingly,
this will be our position in our secularist society. The days of ‘fitting in’ will come to an
end. Under persecution, we will
either become more Christian or less; there will be no middle ground.
We
should not be daunted by these things, remembering the words of our Lord and
Savior, In the world ye shall have tribulation: but be of good cheer; I have
overcome the world (John 16:33).
The Church has experienced many periods of persecution in Her history,
and has only added to Her choir of saints.
May we be accounted worthy of them.
Amen.
1
Bancroft,
John, Adolescence and puberty, June Machover Reinisch, p.162.
2
See
Genesis chapters 14, 18, & 19; also the Book of Jude.
3
Mártir
de Anglería, Pedro, in Décadas del Mundo Nuevo, 1530. De Anglería mentions that “only the
nobles and the gentlemen practiced that kind of desire. (The) indigenous people
knew that sodomy gravely offended God.”
4
Medicine,
Beatrice, “Directions in Gender Research in American Indian Societies: Two
Spirits
and Other Categories” in W. J. Lonner, D. L. Dinnel, S. A. Hayes, & D. N.
Sattler (Eds.), Online Readings in Psychology and Culture (Unit 3, Chapter 2),
Center for CrossCultural Research, Western Washington University, Bellingham,
WA, 2002.
5
This
remark is paraphrasing and expanding upon two classical writers: Xenophon, “Surely you don’t think men
have children with their wives because of sexual desire, when the streets and
brothels are full of women who can satisfy such needs?” and Pseudo-Demosthenes,
“We have prostitutes for sexual pleasure, mistresses to look after our daily
comforts, and wives for the procreation of legitimate children and to act as
managers of our households.” (as quoted in Freeman, Philip, Searching for
Sappho, W. W. Norton & Company, 2016).
6
Freeman,
ibid.
7
Saara
Lilja, Homosexuality in Republican and Augustan Rome (Societas Scientiarum
Fennica, 1983).
8
See,
for example, the introduction of the Corinthian Woman in Aristophane’s
Lysistrata; and the Apostle Paul’s comments in 1 Corinthians 5:1.
9
Note
that anal sodomy is also a serious sin in a heterosexual context. In the Explanation following Canon 35 of
St. John the Faster, “If any man perform arseneocotia upon his wife, he shall be
penanced for eight years, faring the while with xerophagy after the ninth hour
and doing two hundred prostrations daily.”
10 Tobin,
Kay and Wicker, Randy, The Gay Crusaders, Arno Press, 1972, p. 98.
11 “The
Militant Homosexual”, Newsweek, August 23, 1971, p. 47.
12 Eric
Pollard, “Time to Give Up Fascist Tactics”, Letters to the Editor, Washington
Blade, January 31, 1992.
13 Interview
with Gittings in Marcus, Eric, Making History: The Struggle for Gay and Lesbian
Equal Rights, 1945-1990: An Oral History, 1972.
14 Socarides,
Charles W., “Sexual Politics and Scientific Logic: The Issue of Homosexuality”,
The Journal of Psychohistory, Winter, 1992.
15 Ibid.
16 Wright,
Rogers H., and Cummings, Nicolas A., eds., Destructive Trends in Mental Health;
The Well-Intentioned Path to Harm, Routledge, 2005, p. 9.
17 Bayer,
Ronald, Homosexuality and American Psychiatry, Princeton University Press, 1987,
pp. 3-4.
18 Kirk,
M., and Madsen, H., After the Ball: How America Will Conquer its Fear and Hatred
of Gays in the 90s, Doubleday, 1989.
19 Kirk,
M., and Pill, E., “The Overhauling of Straight America”, Guide, November 1987,
p. 24.
20 Satinover,
Jeffrey, Homosexuality and the Politics of Truth, Baker Books, 1996.
21 Bailey,
J. M., and Pillard, R. C., “A Genetic Study of Male Sexual Orientation,”
Archives
of General Psychiatry 48 (1991), pp. 1089– 96; King, M., and McDonald, E.,
“Homosexuals Who Are Twins: A Study of 46 Probands,” British Journal of
Psychiatry 160 (1992), pp. 407– 9; Bailey et al., “Heritable Factors,” pp. 217–
23.
22 Ibid.
23 “Martina
Navratilova lashes out against ‘gay sheep’ experiments”, The Advocate, November
3, 2006.
24 Roselli,
et al, “Sexual partner preference, hypothalamic morphology and aromatase in
rams,” Physiology & Behavior, November 2004; Roselli, et al, “The
development of male-oriented behavior in rams,” Frontiers in Neuroendocrinology,
April 2011, pp. 164169.
25 Salon,
January 14, 2009.
26 The
National Health and Social Life Survey (NHSLS), completed with government
funding in 1994 by the University of Chicago, found that “7.1% (to as much as
9.1%) of the men studied (more than 1,500) had at least one same-gender partner
since puberty . . . almost 4% of the men had sex with another male before
turning 18 but not after. These men
. . . constitute 42% of the total number of men who report ever having a
same-gender experience.” In other
words, approximately 10% of men will have sex with another man at some point in
their life – the origin of the ‘10%’ myth.
Most will have identified themselves as ‘gay’ before age 18, and acted
upon it. But by age 18, half of
them no longer so identify themselves, and will never have another same-sex
partner. By the age of 25, the
percentage of men that identify as homosexual falls to 2.8%. From this it follows that three out of
four boys who think they are ‘gay’ at age 16 aren’t by age 25.
27 Satinover,
Jeffrey, “Testimony before the Massachusetts Senate Committee”, 2003.
28 Entitled
“Can Some Gay Men and Lesbians Change Their Sexual Orientation?” 29
Archives of Sexual Behavior, Vol. 32, No. 5, October 2003, pp. 403–417.
29 Other
than asserting that the veracity of his subjects’ responses could not be
independently verified. Given the
treatment Spitzer received, few of the subjects of his study would have been
willing to identify themselves in any case.
30 van
den Aardweg, Gerard, “Frail and Aged, a Giant Apologizes”, MercatorNet, May 31,
2012.
31 Cretella,
Michelle A., Affidavit in Ferguson vs. JONAH, May 18, 2013.
32 van
den Aardweg, Gerard, Homosexuality and Hope: A Psychologist Talks About
Treatment and Change, Servant Books, 1986.
33 Daling,
J. R. et al., “Correlates of Homosexual Behavior and the Incidence of Anal
Cancer,” Journal of the American Medical Association 247, no. 14 (9 April 1982),
pp. 1988-1990.
34 See,
for example, Bell, A. P. et al., Sexual Preference, Indiana University Press,
1981.
35 McWhirter,
D., and Mattison, A., The Male Couple: How Relationships Develop, Prentice-Hall,
1984.
36 Bell,
A. P., and Weinberg, M. S., Homosexualities: A Study of Diversity among Men and
Women, Simon and Schuster, 1978, pp. 308– 9.
37 JAMA
Internal Medicine Online, June 28, 2016.
38 That
Aelred’s passionate asceticism is regarded by some contemporaries as an example
of proto-gay spirituality, surely says more about our times than Aelred’s.
39 Mattson,
Daniel, “The Strange Notion of Gay Celibacy”, Crisis Magazine, January 26, 2015.