Holy
Trinity Celtic Orthodox Church
Bishop
Brian Kennedy, O.S.B., Pastor
http://www.celticorthodoxy.com/bkceltic-orthodox-church
GAY
MARRIAGE WILL DESTROY SOCIETY
10
Reasons Why Homosexual “Marriage” is Harmful and Must
be Opposed
By TFP Student Action
1.
It Is Not Marriage
Calling
something marriage does not make it marriage. Marriage has always been a
covenant between a man and a woman which is by its nature ordered toward the
procreation and education of children and the unity and wellbeing of the
spouses.
The
promoters of same-sex “marriage” propose something entirely different. They
propose the union between two men or two women. This denies the self-evident
biological, physiological, and psychological differences between men and women
which find their complementarity in marriage. It also denies the specific
primary purpose of marriage: the perpetuation of the human race and the raising
of children. Two entirely different things cannot be considered the same
thing.
2.
It Violates Natural Law
Marriage
is not just any relationship between human beings. It is a relationship rooted
in human nature and thus governed by natural law.
Natural
law’s most elementary precept is that “good is to be done and pursued, and evil
is to be avoided.” By his natural reason, man can perceive what is morally good
or bad for him. Thus, he can know the end or purpose of each of his acts and how
it is morally wrong to transform the means that help him accomplish an act into
the act’s purpose.
Any
situation which institutionalizes the circumvention of the purpose of the sexual
act violates natural law and the objective norm of
morality.
Being
rooted in human nature, natural law is universal and immutable. It applies to
the entire human race, equally. It commands and forbids consistently, everywhere
and always. Saint Paul taught in the Epistle to the Romans that the natural law
is inscribed on the heart of every man. (Rom. 2:14-15)
3.
It Always Denies a Child Either a Father or a Mother
It
is in the child’s best interests that he be raised under the influence of his
natural father and mother. This rule is confirmed by the evident difficulties
faced by the many children who are orphans or are raised by a single parent, a
relative, or a foster parent.
The
unfortunate situation of these children will be the norm for all children of a
same-sex “marriage.” A child of a same-sex “marriage” will always be deprived of
either his natural mother or father. He will necessarily be raised by one party
who has no blood relationship with him. He will always be deprived of either a
mother or a father role model. Same-sex “marriage” ignores a child’s best
interests.
4.
It Validates and Promotes the Homosexual Lifestyle
In
the name of the “family,” same-sex “marriage” serves to validate not only such
unions but the whole homosexual lifestyle in all its bisexual and transgender
variants.
Civil
laws are structuring principles of man's life in society. As such, they play a
very important and sometimes decisive role in influencing patterns of thought
and behavior. They externally shape the life of society, but also profoundly
modify everyone’s perception and evaluation of forms of
behavior.
Legal
recognition of same-sex “marriage” would necessarily obscure certain basic moral
values, devalue traditional marriage, and weaken public
morality.
5.
It Turns a Moral Wrong into a Civil Right
Homosexual
activists argue that same-sex “marriage” is a civil rights issue similar to the
struggle for racial equality in the 1960s. This is
false.
First
of all, sexual behavior and race are essentially different realities. A man and
a woman wanting to marry may be different in their characteristics: one may be
black, the other white; one rich, the other poor; or one tall, the other short.
None of these differences are insurmountable obstacles to marriage. The two
individuals are still man and woman, and thus the requirements of nature are
respected.
Same-sex
“marriage” opposes nature. Two individuals of the same sex, regardless of their
race, wealth, stature, erudition or fame, will never be able to marry because of
an insurmountable biological impossibility.
Secondly,
inherited and unchangeable racial traits cannot be compared with non-genetic and
changeable behavior. There is simply no analogy between the interracial marriage
of a man and a woman and the “marriage” between two individuals of the same
sex.
6.
It Does Not Create a Family but a Naturally Sterile
Union
Traditional
marriage is usually so fecund that those who would frustrate its end must do
violence to nature to prevent the birth of children by using contraception. It
naturally tends to create families.
On
the contrary, same-sex “marriage” is intrinsically sterile. If the “spouses”
want a child, they must circumvent nature by costly and artificial means or
employ surrogates. The natural tendency of such a union is not to create
families. Therefore, we cannot call a same-sex union marriage and give it the
benefits of true marriage.
7.
It Defeats the State’s Purpose of Benefiting Marriage
One
of the main reasons why the State bestows numerous benefits on marriage is that
by its very nature and design, marriage provides the normal conditions for a
stable, affectionate, and moral atmosphere that is beneficial to the upbringing
of children—all fruit of the mutual affection of the parents. This aids in
perpetuating the nation and strengthening society, an evident interest of the
State.
Homosexual
“marriage” does not provide such conditions. Its primary purpose, objectively
speaking, is the personal gratification of two individuals whose union is
sterile by nature. It is not entitled, therefore, to the protection the State
extends to true marriage.
8.
It Imposes Its Acceptance on All Society
By
legalizing same-sex “marriage,” the State becomes its official and active
promoter. The State calls on public officials to officiate at the new civil
ceremony, orders public schools to teach its acceptability to children, and
punishes any state employee who expresses disapproval.
In
the private sphere, objecting parents will see their children exposed more than
ever to this new “morality,” businesses offering wedding services will be forced
to provide them for same-sex unions, and rental property owners will have to
agree to accept same-sex couples as tenants.
In
every situation where marriage affects society, the State will expect Christians
and all people of good will to betray their consciences by condoning, through
silence or act, an attack on the natural order and Christian
morality.
9.
It Is the Cutting Edge of the Sexual Revolution
In
the 1960s, society was pressured to accept all kinds
of immoral sexual relationships between men and women. Today we are seeing a new
sexual revolution where society is being asked to accept sodomy and same-sex
“marriage.”
If
homosexual “marriage” is universally accepted as the present step in sexual
“freedom,” what logical arguments can be used to stop the next steps of incest,
pedophilia, bestiality, and other forms of unnatural behavior? Indeed, radical
elements of certain “Avant Garde” subcultures are
already advocating such aberrations.
The
railroading of same-sex “marriage” on the American people makes increasingly
clear what homosexual activist Paul Varnell wrote in
the Chicago Free Press:
"The
gay movement, whether we acknowledge it or not, is not a civil rights movement,
not even a sexual liberation movement, but a moral revolution aimed at changing
people's view of homosexuality."
10.
It Offends God
This
is the most important reason. Whenever one violates the natural moral order
established by God, one sins and offends God. Same-sex “marriage” does just
this. Accordingly, anyone who professes to love God must be opposed to
it.
Marriage
is not the creature of any State. Rather, it was established by God in Paradise
for our first parents, Adam and Eve. As we read in the Book of Genesis: “God
created man in His image; in the Divine image he created him; male and female He
created them. God blessed them, saying: ‘Be fertile and multiply; fill the earth
and subdue it.’” (Gen. 1:28-29)
The
same was taught by Our Savior Jesus Christ: “From the beginning of the creation,
God made them male and female. For this cause a man shall leave his father and
mother; and shall cleave to his wife.” (Mark 10:6-7).
Genesis
also teaches how God punished Sodom and Gomorrah for the sin of homosexuality:
“The Lord rained down sulphurous fire upon Sodom and
Gomorrah. He overthrew those cities and the whole Plain, together with the
inhabitants of the cities and the produce of the soil.” (Gen.
19:24-25)
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